Hopefully this will have inspired and motivated you but it could have depressed you as well.
There is no need to feel depressed or thatÂ you’veÂ built your mental foundations on error.
Iâ€™d rather have gone through life knowing what was wrong than having come to the end to find out you really didnâ€™t know there was something wrong that you couldâ€™ve fixed.
In our day and age, things are changing so fast that itâ€™s hard to keep up with the information available to us never mind applying it to our lives. Many of the things that I was brought up to believe in such as the sanctity of marriage, being a lawful citizen amongst others, have been tested and changed as society hurtles down the path of progress. The question I often ask is whether society is progressing or whether we’re on the road to destruction?
The conquest for your mind.
Your mind is the one commodity that you exclusively own. No one can tell you what to think or how to think. They may imprison your body and try to rehabilitate your mind but it rarely succeeds. Otherwise most addiction programs would work.
The question to answer is whether you are happy with your life at the moment.
Do you have cracked foundations?
Are they staying constant or getting worse?
Have the storms of life tested your foundations to the core?
Have you checked whether your foundations are solid or are the thoughts of doubt seeping through?
If youâ€™ve identified cracks then you need to decide what youâ€™re going to do.
Are you going to leave it as it stands, repair or rebuild?
Often a quick assessment and plan of action are all you need to repair your inner core but many times you leave it because youâ€™re too busy and itâ€™s not that bad.
A lintel was knocked out of a wall at work some time ago.
The archway stood solid for a long time and was never repaired. There was no need.
In the last month, cracks have suddenly widened with the wall sagging in the middle.
Itâ€™s a matter of time before the archway collapses.
People use the archway daily and yet nobody saw the danger because they were used to it.
Are you the same?
Have your foundations taken a serious knock?
Have you inspected the damage and decided that itâ€™s ok, you can live with it?
Make Time to Inspect.
When did you last inspect your inner life?
Are you building new relationships, making financial or life decisions, following new challenges or just wondering where life is taking you?
Have your values and beliefs changed?
Make time to inspect all your mental foundations and the core beliefs of your life.
If you build on weak foundations, a collapse is inevitable.
One of the foundation stones for a strong mind is honesty.
The easiest person in the world to deceive is you.
We all feel the same when we have been conned.
A feeling of outrage, anger and disbelief that one could pull the wool over our eyes.
Yet we quite happily con ourselves into believing that our foundations are secure when we know deep down inside that they arenâ€™t.
Have you built your mental foundations on what others believe?
Have you based your opinions on teachings that you accepted without questioning?
Does your past dictate the way you live and treat others?
Be brutally honest with yourself as you inspect your inner life.
If your conscience bothers you then you know itâ€™s time to repair or rebuild.
The hardest tumble a man can make is to fall over his own bluff.